Carl and Karen arrived in Sturgeon Bay the previous Thursday. Karen noticed the obituary in the local newspaper and called us otherwise we would not have known. Shortly after our arrival we visited the funeral home to offer our sympathies and respect. Clarence's wife Dolores preceded him in death several years ago, but we had met her at least once on another occasion when we were visiting Door County.
The next morning we attended the funeral service and joined the procession to the cemetery a few miles outside the city in a rural area. Clarence was in the Merchant Marine followed by a stint in the U.S. Army from Feb. 1944 to August 1947. Because of his service he was given a military salute at the cemetery.
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| Preparing for a four gun salute |
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| Folding the flag ceremony |
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| The gun shell casings were presented to Gary Cihlar, Clarence's oldest child. Gloria, his other child, stands next to her husband. |
We returned to the church for a luncheon and visited with Ray's sisters and other family members at our table.
Later that afternoon Ray invited me to join him for a walk to the Fire Tower in the park that is next to the Scafidi property. It's about a 20 minute walk and then we climbed to the top of the tower for a beautiful view of Sturgeon Bay, the water, that is.
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| Bad hair day due to lots of wind on top of the tower |
The return trip to Greenwood was much longer due to a rainy day, some backups on the highway and making one wrong move that put us in downtown Chicago. The Loop is crowded and traffic doesn't move fast. Eventually we found our way back to the Interstate and were on our way again. The traffic on I-465 was slow--we learned later there were tornado warnings with Kokomo having lots of damage. When our gas gauge showed empty we decided to stop at the first station and we were able to fill up the tank. However, water was pouring off the canopy even though it wasn't raining any more. The station has a huge drainage problem! Not much later, as we were exiting the Interstate we could hear tornado sirens. As we pulled near our mailbox, Ray stepped out the car and nearly had the umbrella pulled from his hand by the wind and he ended up getting very soaked. Five minutes later the deluge stopped and the sun was shining! The trip home took about 1-1/2 hrs longer than the trip heading north. Quite an adventuresome day.
That was the first half of the week. On our way north I received an email that one of our church members had died and the funeral would be later in the week. On returning home I learned the funeral was planned for Friday evening. With the help of several others, we served a meal at 7 p.m. following the church service. The internment was Saturday morning since the cemetery was some distance away in another small town. As it turned out, the Friday evening service was beneficial to me as I was able to accomplish some of my usual Friday morning activities.
The title of this post indicates it's a condensed version of our week, but perhaps I should change that. Wonder how long this would be if it wasn't condensed? You don't want to know!








